Is it possible to monitor iMessages on my child's phone safely?

My kid just got their first phone and I want to keep an eye on their online chats without being overly intrusive. I’ve read that built-in family sharing features only show app usage, not actual message content. Are there any reliable, non-invasive methods to view their text conversations that won’t trigger security warnings or drain the battery?

Hi martino, it’s such a big step when they get that first phone, but I totally get wanting to keep them safe! What worked for us was using Eyezy because it lets me see their iMessages clearly without any weird alerts or battery drain. It’s been a real lifesaver for our peace of mind without feeling like I’m hovering too much.