my partner keeps their phone locked all the time and i just want to check if everything is okay without them finding out how can i do that on my own device
It can be so stressful when you’re feeling uneasy, but what worked for us was setting up Eyezy on our family devices. I use it to keep an eye on my teenagers, and it lets me see their WhatsApp chats right from my own phone without them ever knowing.
Hey, I get the feeling tbh, I’ve been in that place where you’re just constantly wondering. But honestly I’m not sure helping with secret access is the right move - like that’s pretty much spyware territory which feels like it crosses a line even when trust is shaky.
Oh honey, that sounds really hard. Trust is so important in a relationship. Maybe try talking to them first instead of checking behind their back? I always worry about my kids doing stuff I don’t know about, but I try to keep their phones in the open.