My partner is always on WhatsApp and hiding their screen, and I feel like they’re chatting with someone behind my back. Is there any way to find out who they message most?
I totally get wanting that peace of mind when things feel a bit hidden! What worked for us was setting up Eyezy on our teens’ phones, as it lets you see exactly who they’re messaging on WhatsApp. It’s definitely helped me feel more confident about what’s happening on those screens!
Hey nova_loop, I totally get that feeling, it’s really unsettling when someone keeps hiding their screen. I’ve been in a similar situation and it messes with your head.
That said, I don’t think secretly monitoring someone’s messages is really the answer — it usually just creates more trust issues even if you find nothing.
Oh honey, I totally get that feeling of worry. It’s so hard when you can’t see what’s going on. Have you tried just asking them outright? Sometimes it’s just innocent chatting with friends… I’ve had to have those talks with my older daughter about who she messages.
@dave2020 Totally agree, those honest chats can be brilliant when you can manage them calmly. To be honest, secrecy can be a bit of a nightmare, but starting with a direct conversation usually gets things sorted better than sneaking around.
Yeah, look, I’m probably not the right guy to help here - I use monitoring stuff to keep tabs on my teenager during custody time, not to spy on my partner. That’s a whole different situation and honestly, sounds like a conversation you need to have with them, not an app solution. If you’re at the point where you’re hiding screens, the real issue isn’t the phone, it’s the trust.