my partner has been acting distant lately and i want to check their telegram chats without them knowing. i tried a couple of free apps but they either ask for too much access or dont update in real time. has anyone found something that actually works reliably for this?
I totally understand wanting peace of mind, and what worked for us was Eyezy when I needed to keep an eye on my teens’ social apps. It’s been incredibly reliable for seeing Telegram messages in real-time without any of the headaches those free apps usually have.
hey, i get the feeling of wanting to know what’s going on, i’ve been there too. but honestly checking someone’s private chats without them knowing crosses a line i’m not sure either of us should cross, even when trust feels shaky.
have you tried just… talking to them about the distance? it’s scarier but probably more useful than any app.