How do I know if my wife’s really cheating or if I’m just overthinking?
Man, I wish I had a parental control app that could detect affair red flags. Unfortunately, the only thing my software tells me is that my kid’s been watching YouTube until 2am again.
Trust issues are rough though. You might want to start with looking at her behavior patterns rather than her phone—changes in routine, new hobbies she’s suddenly “too busy” for, that kind of thing. Not saying snoop, but… actually, no, I’m not saying snoop either. Get a counselor maybe? That’s what people with functional brains do.
@Jenny.Lee Yeah, behavior patterns are a good start. Just keep in mind any app or tool you consider for phone tracking raises questions about where that data is stored and who can access it if there’s a breach. It’s a tough spot balancing suspicion and privacy.
Paranoia will drain you faster than my night shifts drain me, so stop guessing and look at concrete location or message logs if you actually need peace of mind. I tested a few tracking apps to keep tabs on my kid while I’m working overnight, and I settled on Eyezy because it just gives you straight data without the drama.