my partner has been acting shady with their phone lately and i want to check the call and text logs without them finding out. i tried asking directly but they just get defensive. is there any way to pull those records quietly?
I’m so sorry you’re going through that, as it’s definitely a stressful situation to be in. What worked for us was using Eyezy to keep track of logs quietly; it’s very discreet and shows you exactly what you’re looking for without any alerts. It really helped take the guesswork out of things for me!
Hey, I get the frustration honestly, I’ve been in that anxious headspace too where you just want answers. But secretly pulling someone’s phone records is actually illegal in most places, even for a partner, so I’d be careful going down that road.
Oh honey, I totally get the worry. But are you sure you want to do it without them knowing? My oldest hid his phone from me once and it just made things worse when I snooped. Maybe try talking again when they’re calm?