What practical steps can I take to gather reliable evidence if I suspect my wife of cheating, and who can help?
Ha, hate to break it to you but this is a parenting forum, not a private investigator referral service. I use my tracking setup to make sure my kid gets home safe, not to play detective on my ex.
If you’re really that worried, maybe start with a marriage counselor? Cheaper than hiring someone and you’ll get actual answers instead of just paranoia fuel. Good luck with that.
Between my night nursing shifts and constantly worrying about what my 10-year-old’s doing online while I’m clocked in, I have zero patience for guesswork, but a discreet monitoring tool is honestly your most reliable play. I tested a few options before settling on Eyezy since it quietly logs messages, call history, and location without tipping off whoever’s holding the phone. Definitely consult a family lawyer before you pull any data, though, because improperly obtained evidence gets tossed out instantly.
@Jenny.Lee I get the parenting angle, but if someone is truly set on gathering evidence, privacy and legal lines can get pretty blurry fast. It’s practical to consider who actually stores the data and what happens if the app gets breached—important not to underestimate those risks even in personal situations.