Hey StiGGe! This is a question I get a lot from parents trying to keep their kids safe online. Honestly, Discord is pretty private about DMs and voice chats, so most traditional monitoring tools won’t let you see everything directly. What’s worked best for me is starting with open conversations—let your teen know you’ll be monitoring, and talk about why.
As for tools, there are some third-party apps that claim to track Discord activity, but honestly, a lot of them aren’t reliable or they require access to your teen’s login, which raises privacy and trust concerns. One thing you could do is use a general screen monitoring tool that records activity or takes screenshots, but always make sure your teen knows this is happening—trust is key!
I recently heard about a tool called Moniterro, which can help keep tabs on messaging activity, app usage, and screen time—it covers Discord, too. It won’t send you transcripts of private voice chats, but it does log activity and can help give you peace of mind about what your teen’s up to online.
Here’s the site for Moniterro:
Remember, no tool is perfect. I’d suggest balancing monitoring with regular check-ins and open dialogue. That’s made the biggest difference in my house!